(What Parents and Coaches Often Miss)
After reading “Sideline Wisdom,” an astounding number of SOCCERevolution supporters reached out with great insights on how we can all make the game day better. As the season gets underway, it’s easy to get caught up in the excitement, but how we act on the sidelines really matters.
Here are their Top Ten Tips …
Game Day Prep for Coaches
Just as players warm up before a game, coaches should also get ready! Take a moment to reflect on how you’ll support the team from the sidelines. Commit to observing and taking notes, offering instructions during dead-ball situations, and focusing on the positives, no matter the outcome.
Note: Preparing mentally helps you stay calm and focused, setting a great example for your players and their parents.
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Game Day Prep for Parents
Note: A positive mindset from parents creates a more enjoyable atmosphere for everyone—especially the kids.
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Let Coaches Do Their Job
If you’re giving your child instructions that are different from what the coach is saying, it can get confusing. Trust the coach’s guidance and stick to cheering them on. Coaches, make sure your instructions are clear so players know exactly what to do.
Note: And just as important as trusting the coach is letting the kids find their own way on the field.
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Let Kids Play Without Interference
Kids need space to make their own decisions and learn from their mistakes. Shouting out instructions can stress them out. Let them play their game and show their skills. Coaches and parents should provide encouragement rather than constant directions.
Note: When children are given the freedom to make their own decisions, they build confidence, problem-solving skills, and resilience.
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Try a Silent Quarter
If you want to see how much more focused and creative the kids can be? Try dedicating one-quarter of the game to silence—no cheers, no instructions, just quiet observation. Then, compare it with a regular cheering quarter. You’ll be amazed at how kids rise to the occasion when they’re left to think on their own.
Note: Silence encourages players to think critically and rely on their own instincts, which is a valuable skill on and off the field.
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Keep It Positive
From the sidelines, let’s keep our comments positive. Players are more likely to enjoy the game and perform better when they hear supportive cheers. Coaches set the tone by staying upbeat, and parents, let’s mirror that positivity.
Note: A positive, encouraging environment not only helps players thrive but also fosters teamwork and sportsmanship
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Referees might miss some calls, but yelling at them won’t help. Show respect for their decisions and teach kids to handle disappointments gracefully. Fair play starts with how we handle things from the sidelines.
Note: By respecting referees, you model how to accept outcomes and handle adversity with maturity.
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Stay Behind the Spectator Line & …
Choose a spot, stay there, and enjoy watching the children play soccer. ,
Note: A calm, steady presence helps kids focus on their game rather than outside distractions.
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The Power of a Positive Ride Home
Use the ride home to focus on the positives. Talk about what went well and highlight your child’s efforts. Coaches, encourage parents to keep the conversation upbeat and supportive.
Note: The ride home is a crucial time to reinforce your child’s love for the game, so let them start the conversation and keep it light and encouraging.
Keep It Fun!
At the end of the day, soccer should be fun for everyone—kids, coaches, and parents. Cheer with enthusiasm, respect everyone on the field, and focus on the joy of the game. One way to ensure this is by introducing and playing the SOCCERevolution 4-goal game, where every goal is celebrated.
When kids feel supported, encouraged, and score lots of goals, they’ll develop a lifelong love for the game we all love … Priceless!
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Call to Action
Let’s make this season awesome for our kids! Reflect on your sideline behavior and commit to making game day a positive experience.
Please share these tips with your soccer community and encourage everyone to get on board. Together, we can create an environment where kids are excited to play and have fun. Let’s make soccer a game they’ll love and remember fondly for years to come!
