As the final whistle blew on our last game, I found myself reflecting on the season. Did we succeed? If you’re wondering, ‘Did we win?’ let me stop you right there. In youth soccer, success for me isnāt just about trophies š (though they do look great on a shelf). Itās about growth, joy, and sometimes even remembering where we left our shin guards.
So, instead of diving into stats, I looked to the āFUNdamental SOCCER āBill of Rightsā and the Bill of Rights for Young Athletesāan actual thing created by the NASPE. Hereās the quick version:
- Play at your own level (no need to be Messi).
- Qualified leadership (Weāll talk about this in a bit).
- Play like kids, not pros (Slide tackles – optional).
- Share leadership (Team huddles count, right?).
- Stay safe and healthy (Minimal band-aids = success).
- Get proper prep (Warm-ups were mostly us yelling, āLetās go!ā but hey, it worked).
- Equal opportunity (Everyone got minutesāeven if some were accidental).
- Be treated with dignity (No yellingā¦except for excitement).
- HAVE FUN. š
And you know what? We nailed it. ā
The Players Made It Special
Letās be realācoaches just steer the ship š³ļø. The players? They’re the true captains of their journey. This season, we saw:
- Mental growth (figuring out offsidesāmostly).
- Physical improvement (running faster than the snacks post-game).
- Technical skills (even that tricky toe poke).
- Tactical strategies (like “donāt all chase the ball at once”).
And while Iāve heard whispers that “the coaching staff made a difference” (thank you, parents), letās be clear: the real heroes are the kids. They worked hard, stayed curious, and showed us that success isnāt a straight road. Itās more like zig-zags on a muddy field.
Failing Forward š¦
One of my favorite lessons? Failure is just success in disguise. Thomas Edison failed 3,000 times before inventing the light bulb, and weāve probably practiced 3,000 corner kicks to get one just right. Coincidence? I think so. š”
Like Edison, we kept trying. Some games, we didnāt get the win. Other times, we barely got the ball past midfield. But every time, we learned something: teamwork, resilience, and that hydration breaks are non-negotiable.
A Final Thank You
To the parents: Thank You for trusting me with your incredible kids (and for tolerating my attempts at organized chaos). To the players: Thank You for bringing your energy, laughs, and willingness to tryāeven when things got tough.
At the end of the day, this season wasnāt about perfectionāit was about nailing the FUNdamentals: learning, growing, and having a blast. And by that measure, we succeeded in every way that matters.
Hereās to another season of striving for excellence, one laugh and one goal at a time. š„³
Coach Anonymous