After reading “The Secrets to Game-Day Success,” Coach Clark Bales, a veteran contributor to FUNdamental SOCCER, shared his tips …
Sideline coaching varies significantly from coach to coach. I believe a coach who remains silent throughout an entire match likely doesn’t care, lacks interest, or is too nervous to engage. Allow me to share my perspective as a referee and coach.
As a REFEREE, my primary focus is on the players and my officiating team rather than the coaches. I find games much more enjoyable when coaches allow players to play and focus on the game—even at the highest competitive levels. Constant chatter from the sidelines rarely offers useful feedback, and most of it is ignored. In fact, I’ve heard players mutter, “I wish they’d stop yelling.” Coaches who continually shout tend to get tuned out by their players, and their comments lose impact over time.
Note: This highlights the importance of allowing players to take ownership of the game, which can boost their confidence and decision-making skills.
In contrast, a coach who speaks sparingly from the sidelines catches my attention. If a coach only speaks up when something is really important, I pay closer attention because their observations may have merit. This encourages me to reflect on my officiating and consider whether the coach has identified a legitimate issue or is simply venting frustration.
A Special Note to Coaches: Referees are not your enemies. Constant abuse or verbal attacks will eventually lead to a shortage of referees willing to take the field.
As a COACH, my guiding principle for sideline coaching is simple: if I can’t teach a concept in a week of practice, I can’t expect to teach it during a 90-minute game. My priority is that my players enjoy the game, especially at the youth or recreational level. During a game, I limit my coaching to instances when a situation has occurred multiple times, encouraging players to solve problems themselves on the field. This builds their confidence and game awareness.
Note: Focus on creating a fun atmosphere—when players enjoy the game, they learn more effectively and want to come back for more!
I also let my players know I’m here to help if needed. “Look to the bench if you need guidance,” I tell them. When I coach, it’s usually during breaks, such as pauses in the game or when players are away from the point of attack. This way, my feedback doesn’t disrupt their flow. A quick, focused correction after a player’s shift is more effective than constant commentary throughout the match.
Overcoaching every moment leads to player frustration and disengagement. Coaches who constantly correct players may wonder why their team loses focus, but the answer is often simple: the players have tuned them out. On the other hand, a completely silent coach might seem disinterested, making it harder to provide meaningful feedback when needed most. Halftime is the coach’s domain—this is the time to offer feedback, adjustments, and refinement.
Finding the Balance
Lastly, players want to perform well and enjoy the game. As coaches, it’s our job to strike a balance between offering guidance and allowing players the freedom to play. Too much intensity from the sidelines can burden players with the pressure they don’t need, while too little involvement can make it seem like we’re not invested. Finding that middle ground is key to effective coaching.
Note: Remember, your players thrive on positive reinforcement—find ways to support them while still giving them space to learn and grow!
In My Approach
- I use my Eyes to Observe,
- My Brain to Analyze,
- and My Ears to Listen.
I constantly check whether my verbal input is helping or hindering my players. Most importantly, I make sure to smile and laugh during the game—letting my team see that I’m enjoying their efforts is key.
After all, developing a Love for the Game and Creating a Positive Atmosphere is what truly makes coaching rewarding.
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Koach Karls’ Notes:
A special thanks to Coach Clark Bales for sharing his valuable insights. Dear Reader, I’d love to hear your thoughts! How do you approach game-day coaching? Share your experiences and tips with me in the comments or send to koachkarl@fundamentalsoccer.com — THANK YOU!
