Top 10 Tips For Coaching Your Son’s Or Daughter’s Team
How should you coach your child’s team? Here’s some advice on that topic gleaned from comments by Sports Illustrated For Kids readers with Komments from Koach Karl:
10. Know the game
So, you think your son or daughter will be delighted to have your for a coach just because it means you can spend some “quality time” together? Wrong! If you don’t know what you’re talking about on the field – and you don’t make the effort to learn – they would rather you just stay at home.
Koach Karl – Attend a coach’s course in your area.
9. Listen to your players
Kids like to feel respected. Yes, you need to establish your authority – to keep both kids and parents in line – but players are people too. “My mom listens to us and our ideas. That’s why she’s a great coach,” wrote on kid.
Koach Karl – Treat your players with respect.
8. Don’t play favorites
For most kids, being the coach’s pet is bad enough. Being one just because of bloodlines is unbearable. On the other hand, no child wants to be singled out for extra harsh treatment because Dad’s the coach. As hard as it may be at time, treat your childlike any other player. “Nobody is more important than anyone else,” wrote a child in SI For Kids readers’ poll.
Koach Karl – Treat every child the way you want to be treated.
7. Get everyone in the game
All kids like to win. But more than winning, kids like to play. Make sure all of your players get plenty of playing time and opportunities to try different positions.
Koach Karl – In youth soccer there are two positions Field Players & Goalkeeper!
6. Make it fun, Part 1
The No. 1 reason kids play sports is to have fun. You can help. Turn repetitive drills into good-humored contests. Make games exciting, not terrifying. Treat the team to pizza or ice cream after a game now and then.
Koach Karl – Use the 9-Step Routine and play: 1vs.1; Small Sided games followed by a Scrimmage at each/every practice!
5. Make it fun, Part 2
Enjoy yourself. Kids don’t want to feel like a burden. “My dad’s a great coach because he always has a good time,” one child reported.
Koach Karl – Observe them play and help only those who may need the help!
4. Don’t baby them
No kid wants to do 100 sit-ups or run 50 laps, but players expect the coach to make them do whatever they need to do to be ready for the game.
Koach Karl – Use ‘the Serve’ before every (1+1), (1vs.1) and (Small Sided Games).
3. Be a teacher
Kids play sports for fun, but fi they don’t improve, they’ll eventually get bored or frustrated and perhaps quit. Help them learn skills, rules and strategy so that they can maximize their abilities.
Koach Karl – Teach the players that you will ‘freeze’ play during the cooperative portions of the 9-Step Routine. And you will ‘let them play’ during the competitive times.
2. Act your age
It’s embarrassing for kids when their parents argue with officials and yell obscenities. It’s even worse when the parent is the coach. Keep your anger in check and your language decent.
Koach Karl – Ditto to the above..!
1. Care … but not too much
Kids want their activities to be taken seriously, but not too seriously. “She did not care if I won or lost” and “He’s not too emotional” were the most common reasons kids gave for why their mom or dad was a great coach.
Koach Karl – Listen to the children.